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Become a Brahmachari in Krsna Consciousness

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Become a Brahmachari in Krsna Consciousness

This group is about discussing everything related to "Brahmacharya Ashram". How being a Brahmachari is quite important for rise in KC. 

Website: http://vrindavanadas.wordpress.com
Location: Lucknow
Members: 51
Latest Activity: Jun 29, 2014

The joy of No Sex

“You must be crazy”, yelled the manager on hearing that we practise celibacy and live in a monastery. I was presenting spiritual literature in the streets of Mumbai to a group of software professionals and their leader asked me about my life. I told him we get up early in the morning around 3.30 to 4.00 am and our day is packed with various services. He interrupted me and expressed shock at our schedules. I reasoned that we are happier now with this lifestyle than we were earlier. He wondered how someone could be happy getting up so early in the morning when that’s the time he and his colleagues go to bed on weekends after wild partying. He was also appalled that we abstain from sex. My gentle reasoning was ineffective; he and his colleagues looked upon me incredulously and dismissed me abruptly. Then they hurriedly left for their office, leaving me alone on the pavement, wondering if I am indeed a member of an abnormal species.

Celibate monks are indeed a rare and endangered species, but certainly not abnormal. In his autobiographical The Journey Home, Radhanath Swami reveals how for thousands of years many seekers of God have practised celibacy and led a contended life. Right from Jesus and St Francis and other celebrated celibates in the Christian order, to the thousands of unknown simple God seekers who have led a pure life in search of God, religious traditions are filled with innumerable examples of successful celibates. In our own tradition of the Vaishnava branch of Hindu customs, I recalled a large number of celibate monks like Haridas Thakur and Bhakti Siddhanta Saraswati who led a life of strong character and purpose. Even in our own little monastery there are over hundred and fifty monks and at least twenty of them have been around for over two decades. And they all are happy practising spiritual principles in the renounced order as celibates.

The reason for happiness is not in practising celibacy; it’s due to a strong and meaningful connection to God.  The early morning collective prayer sessions give strong impetus to connect to God. Spiritual practitioners who attend the daily prayer sessions feel tangible connection to God; the drive for sex and other carnal pleasures then seem insignificant. For a sincere spiritual practitioner the benefits of spiritual practises are rich, and while the itch of sex desire remains in the heart for many years, it doesn’t distract one from his spiritual pursuits. Moreover sex isn’t a sought after pursuit anymore. It’s rather seen as an irritable impediment on the spiritual path; it occasionally raises its ugly head and then quietens down in the face of strong spiritual practises.

To the extent a celibate spiritual practitioner is absorbed in his devotional principles, lust is not a serious worry; whenever Cupid attacks, the itch is tolerable. However when the spiritual practises are a distracted performance, one finds material life including sex, more attractive.

Radhanath Swami once responded to a challenging sceptic that if sex indeed is a source of joy why the prostitutes don’t dance in ecstasy on having sex many times. Sociological studies have repeatedly shown that the sex workers are the miserable lot in society. Sex doesn’t give lasting pleasure, and no way does it alleviate the miseries of life. On the contrary unregulated sex life can compound our tale of woe. Marriage is a sacred institution where dedicated spiritual practitioners in the company of a like minded spiritualist seek God. For some others who want to be exclusively focussed on God without any distractions, renounced order practise of celibacy is a bonafide method.

It’s a pity that the group I met weren’t interested to know this science. When I see people fail to appreciate our lifestyle I take comfort in a verse from theBhagavad Gita

“What is night for all beings is the time of awakening for the self-controlled; and the time of awakening for all beings is night for the introspective sage” (Bhagavad Gita 2.69). This implies what most of the world sees as normal is known to be abnormal for a spiritualist and what the sincere seekers see as normal is perceived as bizarre by those obsessed with material pursuits.

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Celibacy in Srila Prabhupada letters (compilation of specific parts)

Started by Vrindavana Das LNS Feb 13, 2013. 0 Replies

1968 CorrespondenceCharacter building is the groundwork for seating Krishna Consciousness and the Vedic injunction is that one can advance in spiritual life by following the rules of austerity and…Continue

Tags: srila, prabhupada, letters, consciousness, krsna

Celibacy in CC & Other books (Compilation of texts)

Started by Vrindavana Das LNS Feb 13, 2013. 0 Replies

CC Adi-lilaBy such celibacy they are able to raise the semen to the brain. Thus they become most intelligent and develop very sharp memories. Their minds are never disturbed or diverted from…Continue

Tags: Sri, Isopnisad, CC, consciousness, krsna

Celibacy in BG & SB (a compilation of verses)

Started by Vrindavana Das LNS Feb 13, 2013. 0 Replies

BG Chapters 1 - 6BG 4.42, Purport: Ignorance can be removed by gradual acceptance of the principles of Kṛṣṇa consciousness.…Continue

Tags: SB, BG, consciousness, krsna, celibacy

Quotes from Srimad Bhagavatam on Brahmacharya

Started by Vrindavana Das LNS Feb 11, 2013. 0 Replies

The whole material creation is moving under the principle of sex life. In modern civilization, sex life is the focal point for all activities. (SB 1.1.1)One cannot enter into the kingdom of God…Continue

Tags: Brahmachari, Brahmacharya

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Comment by GOVINDA DASA on June 29, 2014 at 5:32pm

Hare Krishna 

Pranamas and dandavats

Please confirm if a married person can become bharamchari and serve Lord Krsna?

Is there any special process like deeksha?

Hari bol

Comment by viknesh dev on February 15, 2013 at 10:15pm

The sex instinct is the greatest urge in human life. Sex energy or lust is the most deep-rooted instinct in man. Sex energy entirely fills the mind, intellect, Prana, senses and the whole body. It is the oldest of the factors that have gone into the constitution of the human being.

A man has a thousand and one desires. But the central strong desire is the sexual desire. The fundamental desire is the urge for a mate. All hang on this central basic desire. The desire for money, the desire for a son, the desire for property, the desire for houses, the desire for cattle and other desires come later on.

Comment by viknesh dev on February 15, 2013 at 10:14pm

O loving Lord of Compassion! Hey Prabhu! The Soul of my soul, the Life of my life, the Mind of my mind, the Ear of my ears, Light of lights, Sun of suns! Give light and purity. Let me get established in physical and mental Brahmacharya. Let me be pure in thoughts, word and deed. Give me strength to control my Indriyas (senses) and observe the Brahmacharya Vrata. Protect me from all sorts of temptations of this world. Let all my Indriyas be ever engaged in Thy sweet service.

Wipe out the sexual Samskaras (impressions) and Vasanas (subtle desires). Annihilate lust from my mind. Make me a true Brahmachari, Sadachari and Oordhvareta Yogi. Let me be chaste in my look. Let me always walk in the path of righteousness. Make me as pure as Swami Vivekananda, Swami Dayananda, Bhishma Pitamaha, Hanuman or Lakshmana. Forgive. Forgive all my Aparadhas (offenses). I am Thine. I am Thine. Trahi, Trahi. Protect, protect. Prachodayat, Prachodayat. Enlighten, enlighten. Guide me. Om. Om. Om.

Comment by Shankar Rns on February 11, 2013 at 8:41pm

A little chit-chat here, Thank you so much for inviting me here in this power-packed community of Brahmacharya ashram. Matajis and prabhus are most certainly to flourish in the world of brahmacharya may it be married or life-long celibacy. The goal is one..."ATTAINING THE LOVE OF KRISHNA THROUGHOUT OUR LIVES". 24Hours of non-stop unflinching sraddha and bhakti while practising brahmacharya in our spiritual life, is 100% guaranteed of "MAYA FREE WORLD". Without sincerity and purity at the very best of our brahmcharya skills to enliven our Krishna Consciousness, our lives is equally butchered by the onslaught of Maya's trick on us. My Guru Maharaj Radhanath Swami once said...if we don't learn to be serious and carefully execute our sadhana with great humility...we're just equal to the "living dead". I would like to thank Vrindavana Das prabhu...Bhaktin Maral mataji and the rest of the wonderful sevaks here, and by being a very very insignificant and strickenly unqualified rascal as of me.. wishing every one of you here a very best of spiritual luck in our brahmacharya mission to please Guru and Krishna! Jay Srila Prabhupada!

Hell yeah! for such an amazing group...Hari Hari Bol!!!

Your most unfortunate servant,
Shankar Rns


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Comment by Mohini Madhavi on February 11, 2013 at 5:53pm

completely support You Sanjeev Kumar Prabhu,

Grihastha who lives according to religious principles is also a brahmachari. And concerning woman: usually when they are married their brahmachari life begins. This one i heard from the lecture of HH Bhakti Vidya Purna Swami Maharaja.

And also society needs perfect brahmacharis both externally and internally who are self controlled. 

Thank You for this group!

Comment by Sanjeev Kumar Punj on February 11, 2013 at 1:50pm

Brahmacharya is absolutely essential for unmarried and married devotees who are serious about spiritual life.In case of married devotees,Srila Prabhupada has recommended regulated control of sex life,in accordance with the scriptures.The unmarried devotees must observe Brahmacharya very strictly, if they wish to progress spiritually and gain spiritually.Married or unmarried,one has to eventually come to the platform of Brahmcharya,which if sincerely observed,provides the launchpad for intense Bhakti.

 
 
 

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