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  • remember 3 things in ur mind

    1- trust in KRISHNA he never do anything wrong with anyone doesn't matter he or she believe in him or not.......may be u think from ur angle its wrong but i m sure u never feel bad for this after 5 year when u think over it again

    2- to find a life partner its not in our hand " its already decided, we just married with him on right time

    3-  remember only KRISHNA love only  KRISHNA and always thank to him

             and my personal advise when u r in tension or missing & thinking simply just Listen HARE KRISHNA SANKIRTAN (indradumya swami i use to listen) when u feel good read 5 page of GEETA with focus......am 200% sure u feel freshness after that.( its my personal advise its works for me and 4 u also ) 

          HARE KRISHNA.........god bless u sis

  • Volunteer

    From material point of view, why do we fall in love?

    I heard one great vaishnava say, we fall in love with someone to the extent we have faith that, the other person will fulfill our selfish desires.

    Unfortunately, this other person doesnt see you fulfilling his/her selfish desires. So no love.

    If both fools, some how have faith that the other will fulfill their selfish desires, then, we have a mutual material love. Through Maya, they will never see the underlying motives. They instead see that they have this great connection and you are meant to be together for many lifetimes. Wait until you have a couple of children, and soon she will treat the man less than trash, unless of course, you provide everything she imagined you will give her and vice versa. This is the material world. 

    You had faith in him that he will fulfill your swardh (selfish desires). You were wrong about it. Much less he or she doesnt even want to bother being a part of your life. You need to move on. Plenty of fish. Dont be scarcity minded.

    Bhagavatam says that their is no true love within the material relations. Seek Krishna Prema. Its the only true love. Caitanya Mahaprabhu is freely distributing Krishna Prema in the form of Holy Names of Krishna. Chant Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare

    Hare Rama Hare Rama. Rama Rama Hare Hare.

  • So Ms, sikha loving someone is not bad and if he cant be yours it will definetly hurt but do you ever realised whom you are loving, you know everything about him and If not than it is not love just a infatuation because many girl in india love Hritik roshan and to be with him at least for a date and you see hritik also has problems he was not able save his relationship with his wife. So if you will keep seeking happiness in materialistc world then i dont thing one can become happy. If are attracted to some one after seeing one side of him
    • Than his other side will surely dissapoint you. You are pure from inside just try to Love Krishna you will feel his love And you will never feel disappointment. Never ask krishna for materialistc gain because he knows what you need in this materialistic world. Krishna will Satisfy your all question like he satisfied Arjuna, he will satisfy you all desires like he satisfied millions of gopis during Rasleela. I know that whatever i have written is hard to realise but that is because we are attached with this materialistc world but if we try to make our faith stronger in Krishna than he will surely help you. And if you want companionship of someone as your life partner than chose one who can support your devotion towards krishna. And at the end you both head towards godhead.
  • Volunteer

    I suggest you listen to Bhagavatam. You can finish listening 2 hours a day in 30 days. Somewhere in the middle, you will understand human relations. Why we fall in love and what real love is and you will come out of your situation.

    Good luck. Hare Krishna

    Listen with Shradha. Devotion and complete attention.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PPziXv7u2k

  • E-Counselor

    Your love is nothing but a lust.You are too much attached to the bodily conception of lives--both you and your partner. Love has to be reposed at proper place-- the Supreme Enjoy er Krsihna-- to expect back the fruit of your love as mentioned by Shilpa Sharma in this posting. 

    Love becomes lust in this material world due to the contact of modes of material natures in this material world. Only true love exists on the spiritual platform.

    Srilla Prabhupada gave a very nice examples: Our love is just like cat and dog's love. You can see a cat or dog loves its puppies so much so that they play very intimately--they pull their hairs,tails etc. But as soon as you throw a piece of bread, you will see they fight anything like among themselves. So, this is our love. As long as your subtle desires are full filled by your lovable partner, your love exists. As soon as it is not full filled you will have no more loves but hates, criticizes. So, your so-called love is conditional or material.

  • Attachmennt brings tears..but true love is unconditional..dont matter either ione loves u or nt ..u r love for them never fades..that unconditional love is only n only krishna s love..not any other love can be compared to his love...try to get over it...by offering service to krishna..nd love him..nd trust me..he will never let you go!!!!!
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